Sharpening My Relationship Skills – Becoming A Master Seducer


Seduction is a skill every man should have.

I am far from being a master at dating and seduction, but I am getting there. In fact I am sharpening my skills in relationships everyday by reading up on selected works of famous love gurus like Neil Strauss, Tyler Durden, Zan Perrion and Bruno Sheppard.

It’s a good article on online dating and the seduction process over the Internet in general. It’s in agreement with what Derek Rake says in his Online Dating Playbook program (Google it) – that dating and love seems to be easier over the Internet where face-to-face pressure is pretty much minimized. I am learning so much every day… discovering new things as I improve myself 🙂

Recall that I wrote an article about how to seduce women like a true professional – which is easily my most popular blog article to date. Thank you for all your emails – I will be writing a follow-up post soon enough. Meanwhile it’s time to renew my hosting again, and it would be great if the readers of this blog would chip in a buck or two to help with the hosting costs. Email me for my Paypal account.

I look forward to sharing more content on love, dating and seduction in 2013. God bless!

For Guys! Chatterboxery For Seduction!

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I have received some hate mail regarding my previous blog post on female submission techniques. Well, as they say, haters gonna hate…

I am going to continue anyhow with my own brand of dating advice, and today I am going to talk about the topic of “conversational seduction“.

Dating is a special form of communication between two persons who are attracted to each other. However, even two mutually attracted persons can be easily distracted by a discussion of a single off the beam topic. Hence, it would be safe for a guy to be aware of appropriate topics to discuss with a girl during a date.

  • Topic No. 1: Likes and Dislikes

A good way to know a girl better is to know what she likes and what she dislikes. You can suggest a Q and A game or simply open up the topic of likes and dislikes, however you want to strategize it. Q and A games can be fun and safe for both parties. You can both choose to answer or not to answer the questions that a partner asks. Hence, each other’s privacy can be well protected and issues that can raise a problem can be avoided. But even if it’s just a game, you must also take note of what she reveals. You’ll be more than satisfied to use them for your future strategies. I have also talked about this previously here.

  • Topic No. 2: Favorites

Sharing each other’s favorites can be a lot more fun especially when you learn that you both have common favorites. Ask for her favorite movies, favorite places she’s been to or places where she wants to go, favorite food, favorite drinks, and many other favorites. There are no dull moments when it comes to asking about favorites. Besides, it can be another way to gather information about her which you may want to keep for future use.

  • Topic No. 3: Childhood

Getting to know her childhood can be a useful way to understand her at the present and possibly predict her future actions and dispositions in life. Of course, not a fortune-teller way of predicting but a way to predict her reactions and perspectives about some things such as dating, sex, marriage, etc. It can also be a useful way to see the child in her so you will know how to better take care of her. You may want to ask her how she was when she was a child. Did she also play under the rain or build sand houses on the beach? What stories or urban legends did her grandparents tell her? Did she ever climb a sycamore tree or run like hell with other kids in the neighborhood? You can really laugh at each other’s childhood and be able to know her so well already. By knowing each other’s past as a child, who knows you might fall even deeper in love with each other.

  • Topic No. 4: Fortune Telling

Women like mystical stuff. Learn some fortune telling (a good resource here) and she will be eating out of your hands in no time. Also, if she likes yoga and meditation, then introduce her to meditation music and start enjoying moments together.

All of these topics are good means to get closer to each other and strengthen your relationship. Get to know her really well and remember her revelations. You can always go over them again especially when you will be running out of topics. You can also use them to guide you with future episodes of dating. For example, you may take her to her favorite place, watch her favorite movie with her or go back to her childhood. Opening up these topics during a date will surely turn her on and capture her heart for life. Learning how to find a girlfriend is just the first step – and you must know how to impress her to make her love you for life.

Female Submission Techniques

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If you are like a lot of men, then it can be hard to get a woman interested. A lot of the times, a woman isn’t interested in a male because he doesn’t go about attracting her in the right way. In order to get a female to commit to you, you will need to follow a series of steps. The steps are very easy to follow and are highly effective. The following paragraphs will list a series of tips that you can follow so that women will finally be submissive to you.

Female Submission Tactics – Are These Immoral?

The first female submission technique involves you establishing your power early on in the relationship. It is very important for her to know that you are the leader early on in the relationship. If you aren’t consistent with her behavior, she won’t know what to do. Don’t let her be the leader one day and expect to be the leader the next day. If you want her to submit to you, you need to always act the same way.

After you have laid the groundwork, you need to train her into being submissive. Training her into being submissive can take some work, but it will pay off in the long run. The way that you should train her is by rewarding her for good behavior and punishing her for bad behavior. This can be as simple as letting her buy something she wants or giving her a compliment. As long as you make her remember that being submissive is a good thing, it doesn’t really matter how you reward her. On the other hand, you need to make sure that she remembers that not being submissive is a bad thing. You could punish her by not letting her go out with her friends or not letting her buy new clothes. If you need more tips on how to achieve this, read this blog post.

Consistency Is The Key

As mentioned in the paragraphs above, being consistent is very important. Your girlfriend will become more submissive to you over time, so be patient. As long as you act in a consistent manner with her and give her appropriate rewards and punishments, there is not reason that you should not have complete control over her within time. Want to know how to win a girl’s heart and capture her imagination? Watch this video.

Now that you know some female submission techniques, you should be able to have much more meaningful relationships in the future. One of the most important things to remember is to lay the groundwork early on in the relationship. If she knows that you’re the leader from the beginning of the relationship, she won’t try to be the leader. If you do not act as the leader though, she will try to take the leadership position. Every relationship goes through a “power struggle” stage. Once the power struggle stage has passed, the submissive partner usually does not try to upset the balance. As long as you follow the steps listed above, you should be able to get your girlfriend to do whatever you want. Just make sure that you reward and punish her according to her actions.

Final plug: the Warlock Method is now ready.

Seduction Using Mind Control And Female Psychology

How to seduce women using cutting edge mind control and psychology techniques

Now you are at this website and you need help figuring out how to seduce a woman and make her like you quickly. You definitely will find whatever that you were looking for here. This site developed with the specific reason default free dating love and pickup advice. I love writing about dating and seduction. I have been a pickup guru and the seduction expert for about 20 years now, long before anybody else.

Except David Welsh, maybe. 🙂

In this short blog post, I am going to share with you some particularly powerful ways on how to pick up a girl that most guys will never ever find out. (Sidenote: some of these techniques on picking up girls have been previously shared as a guest blog post at The problem with most guys now is they tend to want to over-complicate things when it comes to dating and seducing women will stop bitching that it is important for them to learn about convoluted dating routines or lame Pickup Artist style tactics in order to be successful with women. They tend to gravitate towards complicated techniques which are not proven to work. What they do not know is that the simplest techniques will work when it comes to making a go fall in love with you quickly and easily.

The best thing is that most techniques on seduction that work actually fairly simple to learn and apply in the real world. I urge you to find these techniques, study them, and perhaps most importantly test them when you approach women. In this respect it is important for you to commit to approaching women every single day. Do not make the mistake of learning seduction techniques for the sake of learning. In order to be good at a particular skill, you will need to apply that skill in real life. The same goes for dating and seducing women. It is not sufficient for you to read techniques off a block and hope that when the time comes you will be able to perform. The reality is that without practice you will not be able to improve your love life. Face up to this reality and you will be well on your way to seduction greatness.

What I teach my clients are fairly simple. First of all, in order to be attractive you have got to be different from the other guys so that you can win any girl over. Remember that the more popular goal is the more attraction she will get from guys around her. Therefore, in order to be attractive to her, you have got to stand out in her eyes. There is no point being another guy who is going after her without any particularly appealing and different characteristics that will make you stick in the mind.

Remember that seduction is war. It is really brutal out there! Realize that competition will be severe, and in order to win, you will need to be different. This is also the way to impress any woman quickly and easily. Remember the Eternal Commandments!

Next I’m going to share with you a simple trick on how to make a girl like you quickly. First of all ask her to describe to you how the dream guy would get her to describe to you as speedily as possible so that she forms a clear picture in her mind how the ideal boyfriend would be like. If you can use some mild hypnosis and persuasion techniques in order to convince her to participate in these exercise with you.

(Note: this is also known as value elicitation tactic in the hypnosis and deep persuasion world.)

When you have done this already asset to close the eyes, and then use the anchoring techniques which I’m going to show you later in order to make her think that you are the ideal boyfriend she has pictured in her mind. When you do this, you will associate yourself with the positive picture in the mind and make her love you quickly. It is amazingly simple but super powerful. Try it the next time you want to attract a girl and make her fall in love with you.



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The Eternal Commandments Of Love And Romance

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I felt compelled to write this out because I am sick and tired of those useless dating gurus spewing out wrong advice when it comes to love, romance and relationships. I can tolerate opinions, but not unproven “seduction theories” which may put men’s love lives in jeopardy.

There’s lots of useful nuggets here at this siteabout dating and love in general (though not specifically targeted for men). I am not too excited about other blogs – some are so blatantly commercial that they deserve to be nationalized. Now, don’t get me started on all those Ayn Rand fanboys who are unabashedly capitalist.

So, I am listing down here the eternal commandments of love and romance which I think most men should read and remember. Remember what John Kimble said: seduction is war – make no mistake about it. Remember this when you get in the field and you will do well in the game of dating, love and seduction:-

The Eternal Commandments Of Love And Romance – Remember These!

  • Always Be Approaching. As someone wise said, practice trumps knowledge every time. Stop reading seduction websites and blogs (including this one!) and start getting out there and approach. Learn about pickup lines and approach techniques – and then get out there in the field.
  • Learn Female Psychology. Most seduction tactics out there are based on the pioneering works of master hypnotists and psychology. Learn as much women psychology as possible. Then you will get a better understanding of the bigger picture, and how dating and seducing women falls under the bigger persuasion umbrella. And if you can stomach it, learn mind control (read the Wikipedia article here).
  • Buy Seduction Ebooks. You can get out there and make mistakes, but let’s face it – we are all human. We all get discouraged from time to time from repeated failures. Cut short your learning curve by buying seduction programs online. They are worth it.

Now what are you waiting for? Go improve your love life today. Don’t delay!

Pimping Up Your Apartment To Impress A Girl

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I have been a huge fan of home improvement lately, and I’ve just realized the importance of having a clean apartment in the overall context of impressing and attracting women. Think about it. A man’s home is necessarily a reflection of his individuality and personality. If you are a sloppy person, then your place will inevitably be untidy and dirty. Think about it.

Many of my friends can really put up a good show when they are out there “sarging” and picking up women, but the deal breaker is often the apartment when they finally bring the woman home. A dirty apartment or property will quickly kill attraction like nothing else. Beware!

So if you have got the money, do not skimp. Look for real estate for sale or rent which is located in a desirable part of town, and narrow down the choices based on your preference or locale. Sites like Trulia and Zillow are also good – but they can be confusing at times. Also consider hiring a good realtor or property broker especially if you are a first time property buyer or investor.

Once you have nailed this down, then you can be assured that you will achieve better results with women than never before. Trust me on this!

UPDATE January 6th, 2013: Apart from the obvious “demonstration of higher value” as outlined in the above blog post, I have also discovered the advantages of building inner game when it comes to building up your real estate portfolio. Having lots of confidence is good when it comes to making important decisions. I will talk more about this in our next blog post… which will commensurate the launch of my flagship Warlock Method!

How To Seduce A Woman Like A Pro

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An old friend of mine came up to me and asked if I could help him answer this question that he has got regarding dating and seducing women in general. He wanted to know my absolute best technique on how to seduce women and get them to be attracted to him in the shortest time possible.

In my many years as a dating coach I have met with plenty of guys who want the ultimate shortcut when it comes to seduction, love and relationships. The truth is that there is no shortcut when it comes to becoming good at dating women! Many dating gurus out there would want you to believe that they have got the easy way out, but the reality is that they are nothing more but a group of snake oil salesman promising easy success with women. It’s a sad state of affairs, but this is also the reason why most guys suck when it comes to women. They are completely clueless when it comes to knowing how to win a woman over, but who could blame them?

Seduction And Relationships – A Quandary

Right now in the day and age of the Internet it is pretty easy to acquire a body of knowledge consisting of the latest seduction tricks and tactics. (One such place to get advice on dating and seduction is for example.) There is no excuse of not knowing what to do in order to be better with women. Another good resource is this page on how to seduce a woman –

– it has got perhaps the best techniques that one can use to immediately become better with the females (and it works especially well if you’re dealing with a female player!). Go check it out and tell me if it works for you. It works even better if you’re a born gentleman!

Acquiring pickup knowledge is definitely not easy (although reading this guide is a start!). You have got to be determined to overcome all your dating and relationship sticking points. Once you are able to do this then you will be able to approach any girl, make her fall in love with you and get her to agree to be your girlfriend. Of course, once you’ve got her in your bag, then your biggest task would be to overcome the many temptations which will inevitably come your way.


Picking Up Girls: Is It Really That Hard?

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Hey, this is the Warlock writing from EFX2 HQ.

Many guys come up to me to ask about how to pick up a girl and make her fall in love quickly. My answer is quite standard. If you want to be good with women then you must first learn the basics of seduction techniques. In order to do so, you must improve on your rapport building skills with a girl. When you have done this, then you will be able to make any girl fall in love with you quickly and effortlessly. Now despite what most dating gurus and seduction teachers will tell you, learning about picking up women is really not difficult. All you need to do is to master some basic pickup and seduction techniques from proven teachers such as Neil Strauss, Tyler Durden, Derek Rake, Zack Abbie and Ronald Simpson. These teachers have taught dating and pickup to guys for years and they definitely know what they talk about when it comes to providing quality love and relationship advice.

If you want to know about the best techniques about picking up girls and making them fall in love, then you must first learn about female psychology and persuasion. It’s actually not really hard, and you do not need to go to college in order to learn about this. You can go online to sites like Fast Seduction and in order to equip yourself with the best dating and seduction knowledge out there in the world today. Seduction sites like and are good places to pick up good knowledge when you can then use when you are out there approaching women.

It’s All In The Practice, Baby

The biggest mistake that any guy can make when it comes to improving their love lives is to learn the art of seduction by reading a bunch of ebooks. While these online programs have value, nothing will beat the real in-field experience when it comes to seducing women. The best way to learn this stuff is through trial and error (after learning the techniques in a guide on how to pick up girls of course). You will need lots of practice! Don’t fall into the trap of reading too much and doing too little. Of course, books like Robert Greene’s Art Of Seduction and Derek Rake’s Dark Rake Method are also useful, but remember that in order to see results you will need to use them in real life.

There are lots of techniques out there which will give you the ultimate advantage when it comes to winning a girl over, but you must be selective because a lot of techniques are really a waste of time. Stop learning gimmicky tricks such as peacocking and forget about pick up lines. Follow the tips that I gave here and you will do fine. Truth!

Otherwise, you can contact me and we can see how we can help you further. 🙂


Video On How To Win A Girl’s Heart

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Watch this video and learn how to win her heart over like a true pro –

I find this very inspirational! And funny too!

The video above relates well to the October Man Sequence which is said to be one of the strongest dating and seduction techniques ever to be invented by men. I do not know the specifics but masters in the underground seduction scene swear by this little technique. Apparently the technique has got to do with using fractionation (some information can be found at and using this hypnotic technique to pick up girls like a true professional. I am not sure if the technique is effective, but there are people I know who have used it effectively to make women fall in love with them – even though they have just met for about 15 minutes. This seems to be a surefire way on winning a girl over especially when you think that you have blown the chances.

Many guys want to be good at dating, love and seduction but they do not know where to start. If you want to learn about this technique, then go to the OctoberManSequence website and read up (you might take up some time doing this) about how to use the tactic to quickly get a girl to fall in love with you. It’s not easy, but it’s definitely worth it, especially if you want to improve your game and be good with women. Highly recommended! Email me if you want to share your seduction success stories!

With techniques such as the October Man the sky is the limit when it comes to dating and seducing high quality women!

What is interesting about the October Man Sequence is that it “hacks” into a woman’s mind and by using techniques that tap into the female psychology any man is able to make any woman fall in love using some really nifty anchors and other Neuro Linguistic Programming (or better known as NLP) devices. It’s simply exceptional. However, there is one drawback – it is often difficult to pull the October Man Sequence technique off successfully simply because you will need some prior experience in mind control and hypnosis in order to be good at it. Therefore, learn as much hypnosis and persuasion as you can and you will be able to master the art of seducing women successfully.

A good resource on hypnosis and persuasion is the internet obviously. is a good site where you can find out more about how to use covert “female loophole” techniques to seduce women. Try it and let me know how it works for you.

Winning A Woman Over… E.F.X Style!

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Daniella, our executive coach, showing her wares in our last Awesomeness Festival in Nicaragua.

Daniella, our executive coach, showing her wares in our last Awesomeness Festival in Nicaragua.

If you are looking for some killer dating, love and seduction techniques and tips on how to win a girl over then you are at the right place. The truth is that it is pretty easy to win over a girl’s heart, provided you know what you are doing, of course. The problem is that there is just too much nonsense when it comes to dating and seduction advice – much of which are given out by slimy “relationship gurus” who are out to make a quick buck out of poor guys who have problems in their relationships.

Who can they blame?

If you are looking for some good advice and techniques on how to get a girl to like you and quickly win her over, then you will find plenty of help here. Read on to discover how you can win a girl’s heart and some guaranteed methods to win her over – even though she has rejected you… and yes, I, John “Warlock” Byrnes, am speaking from experience! 🙂

How To Win A Girl’s Heart – Read This (It’s Not The Usual Yada Yada Yada)

  • First, learn some hypnosis. It is proven that such techniques (and those which are based on human psychology and persuasion) tend to work effectively well when it comes to dating and seducing women. It’s no surprise that much of the current seduction knowledge base is entirely built upon the hypnosis and neuro linguistic programming (NLP) body of knowledge (even though some has argued that it’s all a scam – see this Quora thread). Therefore, if you want to learn how to win a girl over using seduction techniques then it will be useful for you to get an understanding of how love and relationships based on hypnosis work. Go for it – it is worthwhile in the long run. I don’t mean that you should go and enroll yourself in a weekend hypnosis course at your local college, but start by reading up on books on female psychology and persuasion such as those by Carl Jung, Sigmund Freud and Derek Rake.
    Carl Jung... one of my heroes!

    Carl Jung… one of my heroes!

  • Practice with women you meet everywhere. Now it’s relatively easy to just read up on some books giving out relationship advice. The harder thing is to go out there and practice what you have learned. Start by going to the local bookstore or coffee shop. Then, approach the first girl that you see (does not matter whether the girl is hot or not). Then, use the seduction techniques you learned here at this website (or at or elsewhere). You may fail to impress a girl the first time, but keep on going. With enough practice, you will be able to know how to win a girl’s heart quickly and effectively using these love tactics. This is also when you can really know how to get a girl to like you and get her emotionally connected to you. For more techniques on dating and relationships,  start mastering the art of dating women!
  • Groom like a pro. Let’s face it – girls won’t date guys who look sloppy. It’s even worse if you spot a 35-inch belly. Lose the fat by hitting the gym. Whoever who tells you that looks are not important is pulling your leg. Go work out and start lifting weights.

Now what happens when the girl you like has already rejected you? Fret not, my friend, for I have got you covered as well. Read on to discover the killer relationship tricks that you can use to get your ex-girlfriend back and get her to love you more than ever…

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We all know that rejection hurts like hell. I know… because even the Warlock gets these rejections from time to time. There is, however, a method that you can use to win a girl if you don’t mind using some killer psychology and persuasion techniques. Here are a couple of these “female psychology loophole” techniques and tricks that will make a woman come running into your arms even though she may have broken your heart before…

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  1. Firstly, gain some composure. Remember that confidence is the number one factor on how girls would rate their boyfriends. Don’t be desperate. Instead, think of what you can offer a girl in a relationship and focus on that.
  2. Be the best boyfriend you can be. Always be there for her, and care for her even though she has rejected you. Act as if you are her boyfriend already.
  3. Call her everyday and every night before she goes to sleep. This way she will fall asleep thinking about you. She might just dream about you and her being together, and in love!
  4. Ask her reasons why she rejected you. She might think that you are a fat slob (easy fix – just hit the gym!), or if she is already attached to another guy. If this is the reason, then continue reading and I will show you how to win a girl’s heart who has a boyfriend. Go on…

So She’s Attached? Who Cares?

You must use Boyfriend Destroyer techniques – plain and simple. If you are not already using these dating and advanced seduction techniques then you are losing out – plain and simple. Go Google it and then buy whatever you see. These are not conventional techniques, but if you use them you will be able to upgrade your relationships and date whatever women you wish. It’s really that powerful. Otherwise, go read the complete SeductionFAQ website and you will be able to upgrade your seduction skills and be the ultimate pickup artist that you ever wanted to be. At least, use something as potent as the October Man Sequence (see this, but don’t come running to me if you feel disgusted by the sheer sneakiness of the tactic!).

UPDATED: I have received numerous emails on dating and seduction tips and techniques that I share here at this website. I can’t answer every email, but if you insist on my help then ask for my rate card. Thank you for understanding.

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