How To Win A Girl Over

I’ve been writing this blog for some time now, and am now compiling a “greatest hits” guide of sorts. Good news – I’ve even gotten a book deal with one of the biggest book distributors here – so I’ll be publishing “EFX2 Guide To Seduction” sooner than later.

• Love commandments – what you need to know
• The art of the pickup (must read!)
• Conversational seduction – how to talk to women

Enjoy the read, and talk soon.

If you’ve been following my blog for a long time now, you may notice how my tricks and tips may differ from your usual seduction techniques, and so a lot of readers have been sending in mixed reactions, of which I appreciate– at least my writing is creating a spark that just gives me more reasons to write and be inspired. So thank you, readers and your different ideologies concerning dating! Your views and opinions are well-appreciated.

So I’ve touched the topics of mind control, music, hypnosis, meditation, and conversational seduction for the past couple of articles. Now, I’m going to reintroduce another seduction technique for you to learn– the October Man Sequence. While I’m still in the process of trying to master it, I figured it’s about time for you to learn it as well, so we can both experience and enjoy its results at the same time.

I’d write more about this different take on seduction on my future posts, so check my blog from time to time if your curiosity has been shaken, just like mine.

Til next time!

Seduction is a skill every man should have.

I am far from being a master at dating and seduction, but I am getting there. In fact I am sharpening my skills in relationships everyday by reading up on selected works of famous love gurus like Neil Strauss, Tyler Durden, Zan Perrion and Bruno Sheppard. One of my favorite article on love and dating has got to be this -

http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2010/01/23/the-science-of-online-seduction/

It’s a good article on online dating and the seduction process over the Internet in general. It’s in agreement with what Derek Rake says in his Online Dating Playbook program (Google it) – that dating and love seems to be easier over the Internet where face-to-face pressure is pretty much minimized. I am learning so much every day… discovering new things as I improve myself

Recall that I wrote an article about how to seduce women like a true professional – which is easily my most popular blog article to date. Thank you for all your emails – I will be writing a follow-up post soon enough. Meanwhile it’s time to renew my hosting again, and it would be great if the readers of this blog would chip in a buck or two to help with the hosting costs. Email me for my Paypal account.

I look forward to sharing more content on love, dating and seduction in 2013. God bless!

I have received some hate mail regarding my previous blog post on female submission techniques. Well, as they say, haters gonna hate…

I am going to continue anyhow with my own brand of dating advice, and today I am going to talk about the topic of “conversational seduction“.

Dating is a special form of communication between two persons who are attracted to each other. However, even two mutually attracted persons can be easily distracted by a discussion of a single off the beam topic. Hence, it would be safe for a guy to be aware of appropriate topics to discuss with a girl during a date.

• Topic No. 1: Likes and Dislikes

A good way to know a girl better is to know what she likes and what she dislikes. You can suggest a Q and A game or simply open up the topic of likes and dislikes, however you want to strategize it. Q and A games can be fun and safe for both parties. You can both choose to answer or not to answer the questions that a partner asks. Hence, each other’s privacy can be well protected and issues that can raise a problem can be avoided. But even if it’s just a game, you must also take note of what she reveals. You’ll be more than satisfied to use them for your future strategies. I have also talked about this previously here.

• Topic No. 2: Favorites

Sharing each other’s favorites can be a lot more fun especially when you learn that you both have common favorites. Ask for her favorite movies, favorite places she’s been to or places where she wants to go, favorite food, favorite drinks, and many other favorites. There are no dull moments when it comes to asking about favorites. Besides, it can be another way to gather information about her which you may want to keep for future use.

• Topic No. 3: Childhood

Getting to know her childhood can be a useful way to understand her at the present and possibly predict her future actions and dispositions in life. Of course, not a fortune-teller way of predicting but a way to predict her reactions and perspectives about some things such as dating, sex, marriage, etc. It can also be a useful way to see the child in her so you will know how to better take care of her. You may want to ask her how she was when she was a child. Did she also play under the rain or build sand houses on the beach? What stories or urban legends did her grandparents tell her? Did she ever climb a sycamore tree or run like hell with other kids in the neighborhood? You can really laugh at each other’s childhood and be able to know her so well already. By knowing each other’s past as a child, who knows you might fall even deeper in love with each other.

• Topic No. 4: Fortune Telling

Women like mystical stuff. Learn some fortune telling (a good resource here) and she will be eating out of your hands in no time. Also, if she likes yoga and meditation, then introduce her to meditation music and start enjoying moments together.

All of these topics are good means to get closer to each other and strengthen your relationship. Get to know her really well and remember her revelations. You can always go over them again especially when you will be running out of topics. You can also use them to guide you with future episodes of dating. For example, you may take her to her favorite place, watch her favorite movie with her or go back to her childhood. Opening up these topics during a date will surely turn her on and capture her heart for life. Learning how to find a girlfriend is just the first step – and you must know how to impress her to make her love you for life.

If you are like a lot of men, then it can be hard to get a woman interested. A lot of the times, a woman isn’t interested in a male because he doesn’t go about attracting her in the right way. In order to get a female to commit to you, you will need to follow a series of steps. The steps are very easy to follow and are highly effective. The following paragraphs will list a series of tips that you can follow so that women will finally be submissive to you.

Female Submission Tactics – Are These Immoral?

The first female submission technique involves you establishing your power early on in the relationship. It is very important for her to know that you are the leader early on in the relationship. If you aren’t consistent with her behavior, she won’t know what to do. Don’t let her be the leader one day and expect to be the leader the next day. If you want her to submit to you, you need to always act the same way.

After you have laid the groundwork, you need to train her into being submissive. Training her into being submissive can take some work, but it will pay off in the long run. The way that you should train her is by rewarding her for good behavior and punishing her for bad behavior. This can be as simple as letting her buy something she wants or giving her a compliment. As long as you make her remember that being submissive is a good thing, it doesn’t really matter how you reward her. On the other hand, you need to make sure that she remembers that not being submissive is a bad thing. You could punish her by not letting her go out with her friends or not letting her buy new clothes. If you need more tips on how to achieve this, read this blog post.

Consistency Is The Key

As mentioned in the paragraphs above, being consistent is very important. Your girlfriend will become more submissive to you over time, so be patient. As long as you act in a consistent manner with her and give her appropriate rewards and punishments, there is not reason that you should not have complete control over her within time. Want to know how to win a girl’s heart and capture her imagination? Watch this video.

Now that you know some female submission techniques, you should be able to have much more meaningful relationships in the future. One of the most important things to remember is to lay the groundwork early on in the relationship. If she knows that you’re the leader from the beginning of the relationship, she won’t try to be the leader. If you do not act as the leader though, she will try to take the leadership position. Every relationship goes through a “power struggle” stage. Once the power struggle stage has passed, the submissive partner usually does not try to upset the balance. As long as you follow the steps listed above, you should be able to get your girlfriend to do whatever you want. Just make sure that you reward and punish her according to her actions.

How to seduce women using cutting edge mind control and psychology techniques

Now you are at this website and you need help figuring out how to seduce a woman and make her like you quickly. You definitely will find whatever that you were looking for here. This site developed with the specific reason default free dating love and pickup advice. I love writing about dating and seduction. I have been a pickup guru and the seduction expert for about 20 years now, long before anybody else.

In this short blog post, I am going to share with you some particularly powerful ways on how to pick up a girl that most guys will never ever find out. The problem with most guys now is they tend to want to over-complicate things when it comes to dating and seducing women will stop bitching that it is important for them to learn about convoluted dating routines or lame tactics in order to be successful with women. They tend to gravitate towards complicated techniques which are not proven to work. What they do not know is that the simplest techniques will work when it comes to making a go fall in love with you quickly and easily.

The best thing is that most techniques on seduction that work actually fairly simple to learn and apply in the real world. I urge you to find these techniques, study them, and perhaps most importantly test them when you approach women. In this respect it is important for you to commit to approaching women every single day. Do not make the mistake of learning seduction techniques for the sake of learning. In order to be good at a particular skill, you will need to apply that skill in real life. The same goes for dating and seducing women. It is not sufficient for you to read techniques off a block and hope that when the time comes you will be able to perform. The reality is that without practice you will not be able to improve your love life. Face up to this reality and you will be well on your way to seduction greatness.

What I teach my clients are fairly simple. First of all, in order to be attractive you have got to be different from the other guys so that you can win any girl over. Remember that the more popular goal is the more attraction she will get from guys around her. Therefore, in order to be attractive to her, you have got to stand out in her eyes. There is no point being another guy who is going after her without any particularly appealing and different characteristics that will make you stick in the mind.

Remember that seduction is war. It is really brutal out there! Realize that competition will be severe, and in order to win, you will need to be different. This is also the way to impress any woman quickly and easily. Remember the Eternal Commandments!

Next I’m going to share with you a simple trick on how to make a girl like you quickly. First of all asset to describe to you how the dream guy would get her to describe to you as speedily as possible so that she forms a clear picture in her mind how the ideal boyfriend would be like. If you can use some mild hypnosis and persuasion techniques in order to convince her to participate in these exercise with you.

When you have done this already asset to close the eyes, and then use the anchoring techniques which I’m going to show you later in order to make her think that you are the ideal boyfriend she has pictured in her mind. When you do this, you will associate yourself with the positive picture in the mind and make her love you quickly. It is amazingly simple but super powerful. Try it the next time you want to attract a girl and make her fall in love with you.

I felt compelled to write this out because I am sick and tired of those useless dating gurus spewing out wrong advice when it comes to love, romance and relationships. I can tolerate opinions, but not unproven “seduction theories” which may put men’s love lives in jeopardy.

I like reading about love and romance a lot, and in fact one of my favorite websites is the Love Quotes website -

http://lovequote.com/

There’s lots of useful nuggets there about dating and love in general (though not specifically targeted for men). I am not too excited about other blogs – some are so blatantly commercial that they deserve to be nationalized. Now, don’t get me started on all those Ayn Rand fanboys who are unabashedly capitalist.

So, I am listing down here the eternal commandments of love and romance which I think most men should read and remember. Remember what John Kimble said: seduction is war – make no mistake about it. Remember this when you get in the field and you will do well in the game of dating, love and seduction:-

The Eternal Commandments Of Love And Romance – Remember These!

• Always Be Approaching. As someone wise said, practice trumps knowledge every time. Stop reading seduction websites and blogs (including this one!) and start getting out there and approach. Learn about pickup lines and approach techniques – and then get out there in the field.
• Learn Female Psychology. Most seduction tactics out there are based on the pioneering works of master hypnotists and psychology. Learn as much women psychology as possible. Then you will get a better understanding of the bigger picture, and how dating and seducing women falls under the bigger persuasion umbrella. And if you can stomach it, learn mind control (read the Wikipedia article here).
• Buy Seduction Ebooks. You can get out there and make mistakes, but let’s face it – we are all human. We all get discouraged from time to time from repeated failures. Cut short your learning curve by buying seduction programs online. They are worth it.

Now what are you waiting for? Go improve your love life today. Don’t delay!

I have been a huge fan of home improvement lately, and I’ve just realized the importance of having a clean apartment in the overall context of impressing and attracting women. Think about it. A man’s home is necessarily a reflection of his individuality and personality. If you are a sloppy person, then your place will inevitably be untidy and dirty. Think about it.

Many of my friends can really put up a good show when they are out there “sarging” and picking up women, but the deal breaker is often the apartment when they finally bring the woman home. A dirty apartment or property will quickly kill attraction like nothing else. Beware!

So if you have got the money, do not skimp. Look for real estate for sale or rent which is located in a desirable part of town, and narrow down the choices based on your preference or locale. Sites like Trulia and Zillow are also good – but they can be confusing at times. Also consider hiring a good realtor or property broker especially if you are a first time property buyer or investor.

Once you have nailed this down, then you can be assured that you will achieve better results with women than never before. Trust me on this!

UPDATE January 6th, 2013: Apart from the obvious “demonstration of higher value” as outlined in the above blog post, I have also discovered the advantages of building inner game when it comes to building up your real estate portfolio. Having lots of confidence is good when it comes to making important decisions. I will talk more about this in our next blog post.

An old friend of mine came up to me and asked if I could help him answer this question that he has got regarding dating and seducing women in general. He wanted to know my absolute best technique on how to seduce women and get them to be attracted to him in the shortest time possible.

In my many years as a dating coach I have met with plenty of guys who want the ultimate shortcut when it comes to seduction, love and relationships. The truth is that there is no shortcut when it comes to becoming good at dating women! Many dating gurus out there would want you to believe that they have got the easy way out, but the reality is that they are nothing more but a group of snake oil salesman promising easy success with women. It’s a sad state of affairs, but this is also the reason why most guys suck when it comes to women. They are completely clueless when it comes to knowing how to win a woman over, but who could blame them?

Seduction And Relationships – A Quandary

Discover how to seduce a woman using these nifty dating and seduction tricks and tips!

Right now in the day and age of the Internet it is pretty easy to acquire a body of knowledge consisting of the latest seduction tricks and tactics. (One such place to get advice on dating and seduction is seductionfaq.com/blog for example. There is no excuse of not knowing what to do in order to be better with women. Another good resource is this page on how to seduce a woman – http://seductionfaq.com/blog/how-to-seduce-a-woman
- it has got perhaps the best techniques that one can use to immediately become better with the females. Go check it out and tell me if it works for you.

Acquiring pickup knowledge is definitely not easy. You have got to be determined to overcome all your dating and relationship sticking points. Once you are able to do this then you will be able to approach any girl, make her fall in love with you and get her to agree to be your girlfriend.